#1) About that title

This blog is written by a life-long spanko. Primarily, it’ll address adult spankings of a male topping a female, or a female dominating another female. That’s just my taste. Since I first started experimenting with actual spankings, my tastes have broadened to include all aspects of corporal punishment, so we’ll talk about the wide range of implements that can be used. But my taste for things like leather straps and paddles, wooden implements from hairbrushes to paddles to bitches and canes, from crops to floggers and whips, as well as pervertibles doesn’t end there. Impact play, whether just playful or justice-oriented punishment, often makes me so submissive that expressing my sexual arousal with only vaginal intercourse doesn’t seem sufficient. (For me, spankings, the generic name I’ll often use to mean any form of impact play, are not a replacement for sex. They are the best foreplay for sex.) I count myself blessed that I am among the women who find anal intercourse very satisfying (intense, but satisfying). Having fooled around with butt sex for about a decade, that focus has broadened, too. We will talk here about analingus, figging, enemas. I’m not into scatological play, but do find the rosebud to be a high-charged erogenous zone. (Indeed, the entire gluteus maximus area, which for a big bottomed girl like me means a lot of real estate, is!)

So, I thought a blog name that just mentioned spanking would be misleading. Hence the name Butt Stuff. I’d like to focus on all of the above. It always makes me smile when vanilla girlfriends, when discussing relationships and sex, will use this term, “butt stuff.” They are almost always referring to anal intercourse. But because words have wonderfully precise meanings, I do mental backflips whenever they do. I don’t correct or question them verbally. I resist the urge to physically bare myself right then and there to show them the evidence of a recent butt beating or fuck. I just smile, but feel those marvelous tingly twinges back there or in my sex. I hope you know that it is wonderful for me to be addressing these topics with a similar-minded audience! (We are not all alike, each unique, with our own particular flashpoints, but we are a community. And that’s becoming all too rare today.)  

4 responses to “#1) About that title”

  1. “It always makes me smile when vanilla girlfriends, when discussing relationships and sex, will use this term, “butt stuff.” They are almost always referring to anal intercourse.”

    (Heh-heh-heh…)

    And maybe they aren’t as “vanilla” as they make out to be? Maybe they (like you?) don’t want anyone to know THAT much about their sex-lives? Maybe, like Gertrude, they “doth protest too much”, as a cover for what they do/love to do privately?

    (Not a fan of anal. Zero interest. But if my GF said she wanted it – I’d do my best!)

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