#828) “Pull Up Your Big Girl Panties”

For the second time in two days I’ve heard that phrase. Yesterday it was admonishingly, this morning lovingly. Regardless, previously I’d always had a mental image of some ugly, functional, full-cut granny-panties. But today, when Robert was in the midst of telling me that he was proud of me, as I went off to work like a functioning adult, I got a different picture in mind.

He and I have a date for later today, when he’s promised to take a long time to pleasure me in every way. For that date, I now plan to pull on a pair of “big girl panties.”

I have a nice collection of expensive Agent Provocateur lingerie. I think I’ll start our date wearing one of those, set the right mood. What we’ll be doing will be a very grown-up, mature activity, after all.

I want to gift wrap my goodies for my man. I want to wear a pair of VERY big girl panties…

9 responses to “#828) “Pull Up Your Big Girl Panties””

  1. I was under the impression that “big girl panties” would be any kind of panties worn by a female who wasn’t a child and that style was not germane to whether or not they belonged to a “big girl”. I mean, sexy panties certainly should be considered big girl panties out of principle. I would shutter at the thought of them somehow being “little girl panties”. Unless of course the wearer was a little in a DD/lg dynamic but that is different as she is a big girl acting like a little girl as opposed to someone who is physically a little girl.

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  2. You want to gift wrap your goodies for your man. You have no idea how delighted I was to read that. Feminist dogma has sought to criminalise such emotions but I have never felt guilty about feeling exactly the same. I want to please my man and to know that I have the power to delight and excite him when I want to do so. I refuse to suppress my feelings even if I don’t yet have the confidence to express them openly to friends.

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    • And YOU have no idea how delighted it makes me to receive feedback like this, sweet sister, Susie P!
      I feel as though we are in an era of growing pains, with criticism from some on the Left and recriminations from some of those on the Right. Do you! To thine own self be true.
      My only complaint is that Robert gets so eager to rip off my wrapping and get to the goodies, he’s sometimes rough on my delicates, intricate little nothings that can cost a HUGE amount of money! “Slip off the ribbon gently, darling, then work from the edge inward carefully,” he’ll hear me say, just like on Christmas or birthdays. “Save the wrapping!”
      Thanks so much for making my day by writing, Susie!

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      • “An era of growing pains”. That’s as good a term as any to describe the current state of western society. I’m no longer certain that terms such as left and right wing are relevant. Amongst other developments we are seeing the rise of a new form of Puritanism which suggests that a woman’s need to please her man constitutes some sort of moral failing. I will have none of it. I’m a young woman. I like to wear pretty dresses and I have a deep need to please my husband. If that is unusual, I simply don’t care. I love your blog, and I’ll try to keep up !

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  3. I read a few months back, I read that back in the Victorian Era, women’s sexuality was repressed to the point where there was a rise in STDs amongst men because wives weren’t sharing in intimacy with their husbands. I’m actually quite traditional in that I believe that sexuality is best inside marriage but I also believe if it’s inside marriage, ANYthing goes that’s consensual. Intimacy and pleasure should be glorified, not repressed, when it’s in the right context. I read 2 blogs primarily, this one and “Strict Julie” and what attracts me the most is the love between the 2 couples. I really love the titillating material, but what keeps me coming back is the underlying theme of respect and love shared in both couples. Be beautiful for your man and make no apologies. For me personally, that’s a “real” woman. And yes, the man should be handsome for her woman and make no apologies. It’s a two-way street!

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    • Yes, I agree, elseepa. I’ve heard that, too, that Victorian men were bringing home diseases from prostitutes because wives wouldn’t engage in vaginal sex, certainly not anal intercourse.
      And I’m a BIG believer in taking the time and effort to make yourself look your very best for your lover!

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