#836) Reverse Cowgirl

We don’t talk about the nuts and bolts of sex in our society much, if at all. I think this is a failing. I think we ought to speak more openly about sex. I think we’d be better off if we did talk about it more and more graphically. To help break down this taboo, I’m going to talk about sex positions now. This isn’t gratuitous on my part. I truly think our society would be better and stronger if we did this more. Maybe it’s the hippie-born-too-late in me. “Make love (and talk about it), not war.” There was an expert, Dr. Ruth Westheimer, who used to do this on talk shows decades ago, I’m told. We need to legitimize this for our times, and I volunteer to lead the charge.
The variety of sexual positions give an already phenomenal endeavor even more pizazz!
That said, I, personally, realize that we’d fallen into a rut, not much of a rut, but a rut nonetheless.
Robert and I love to kiss, so usually we’ll couple face-to-face first. His motivation to change is dictated by when I experience my first (or first few) climaxes. Then, he’ll put me into some other sexual position, something athletic and extra erotic. Often this will be his putting my legs over his shoulders in some fashion. I love the aerobic stretch this provides. I feel exposed. He usually fucks me in this pose until I have several more orgasms. I can then expect to be flipped over. I get some say in the matter now at this juncture of things. I can either lie prone or get up on my knees to take it from behind. Being up against my bum, having my bottom parted to give Robert the opportunity to play up my crack, being able to spank me as we fuck, all of these things usually contribute to this position upping-the-ante in our love-making’s intensity. We shift into overdrive, the energy expended goes up a notch. I usually experience The Big One at this point, and my cumming triggers Robert’s climax.
But for the last several days, my bottom has been very sore and raw from a hard caning. Some of the aforementioned positions hurt in this present state.
So, wanting/needing to connect with my lover in this crucially important way, through sex, I took the lead and got a little innovative. I’ve been mounting my man in the reverse cowgirl position for our last several fucks. I just want to loudly sing the praises of this position for a moment. Yesterday afternoon’s love-making session was so intense, I sang a veritable operatic aria to it during it!
If you don’t know the particulars of this position, look it up on-line. I cannot show you a photo of a couple engaged in it because of the restrictive policies of this platform (more evidence of why this open discussion is necessary). Just refer to the above photo of an attractive lady and imagine her nude and straddling her man, sitting on his erection while facing his feet, and you’ll have a pretty accurate mental image. Robert’s scimitar sword of a cock hits me right where I live in this position! His curvature more directly contacts my clit. My bottom isn’t pounded into the crisp sheets and hard mattress in this position, which can be agony when I’m sore and striped back there. There are the satisfying sound effects of me posting at the trot and “plop, plopping” on the saddle when I’m on top. Robert still controls the speed dial for our congress, depending on when and how he decides to finger my bum hole and crack.
I just wanted to yell a “Yippee-kao-kii-yay!” for the reverse cowgirl position! If you are like us, and have fallen in a lethargy of laziness in this regard, consider changing it up and including this position in your repertoire.

(This was a difficult piece for this inherently shy woman to write, then to publish. But I think it’s so important to speak openly about sex, so I pushed myself beyond that comfort zone.)

10 responses to “#836) Reverse Cowgirl”

  1. Reverse cowgirl is our favorite. It provides me with the most stimulation. I can’t come in Cowgirl position. That’s the best for my partner. So, we can start cowgirl and reverse when she’s had enough. Big fun. Besides, I like seeing her ass bounce up and down as we fuck.

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    • I’ve been researching her; amazing is the right word! It makes me wonder why we move in pendulum swings, some progress ahead, then reactionary rhetoric sets us backtracking…

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  2. I love her legs over my shoulders!! Especially when we are almost at climax.

    I feel I have more room, movement, control, and penetration.

    Only complaint I got was a couple women didn’t feel comfortable stretched so much. (But they didn’t say, “Stop!” either.)

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    • A.J., I think the feeling of being so stretch is just new & different, not bad or uncomfortable, just the opposite.
      I thought you were going to say that the only female commentary was whether their feet smelled, being so close to the man’s nose in that position. That was my worry when I was first put in that position, and says so much about women prioritizing concerns about offending others over our own pleasure.

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